By Kellie McClain
Preventing
the occurrence of unwanted habits and behaviors can pose as extremely stressful
and frustrating, especially if the habit is deeply embedded into an individual’s
routine. The main problem that those with bad habits experience when attempting
to prevent the behavior is discouragement due to increase resistance. Most
often, someone will take action toward preventing the behavior and make
substantial progress, but once prevention reaches its peak difficulty, that
individual then gives up and loses any progress that was made.
Tackling
this issue from a psychological perspective could help individuals understand
how the process of habit breaking works, which will give them more knowledge and
motivation when encountering difficulties. From a psychological view, habit forming
occurs under a learning process knowing as conditioning. An individual learns
to perform a specific behavior based on the rewards that are received by that
behavior. These rewards then make the behavior stronger and turn it into a
habit. These habits can only be broken through extinction, which is the process
through which a conditioned response decreases or is eliminated completely.
Through
the process of extinction, one will experience increased frustration and
difficulty with preventing the behavior. At the peak of this frustration,
extinction bursts, which are known as explosions of unwanted behavior, are
often displayed by the individual. It is at this point that many individuals
get discouraged and give up. However extinction bursts are often followed by complete
extinction of the behavior, which means the habit has been successfully broken.
The
take home message for breaking bad habits is to keep in mind the mental process
that occur during extinction and to have faith that this process will lead to eventual
success. Next time you are trying to rid of an unwanted habit and encourage
significant difficulty and frustration, remember that this only means that you
are getting closer to reaching your goal.
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