By Pamela O'Connor
It is normal for every child to want to experiment. It is a
natural curiosity that everyone is aware of. However, when it comes to drug use
and alcohol consumption, experimenting should be taken a lot more seriously and
not seen as harmless. This “phase” can turn into a life-long issue, ruining any
chance of children having successful jobs or happy marriages and families. A report from the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University
found that nearly half of American high school students are using addictive
drugs. Many of these students continue to become more and more addicted
throughout college and soon enough develop an issue that sticks with them for
the rest of their lives.
The degree of risk is hard to predict, so
one will not know which child will become addicted and which will not. Children
are at a higher risk if they have a family history of mental illness or
addiction. It is also higher if they have difficulties coping with stress or strained
family ties. Some teens who party occasionally will never develop an addiction,
but we will never be able to predict who will develop an addiction, and so the
use of drugs and alcohol must be prevented as much as possible.
Since teens in general are unpredictable and
moody, it is often difficult to identify signs of drug abuse. They may develop
different sleeping habits, spend more time with their friends, or become
disinterested in activities they used to love. Yes, children are always
changing and what they like will change as well, but if they exhume signs of
serious change or distress it may be time to take a closer look at what they
are doing.
Being passive about a drug use situation or
ignoring it as “just a stage” will lead to more problems down the road. Parents
must send a clear, zero-tolerance message that will let their children know
that they as a parent care and love them enough to prevent addiction from
ruining their lives. This requires active involvement; taking the time to get
to know how they are changing and what they are doing. Your child is developing
lifelong habits and goals, and if they see you take their behavior seriously,
they will do the same. If your child is using drugs, your concern will help prevent
the problem from continuing into adulthood. If they are not using, it will help
prevent it from happening and will strengthen the bond between parent and child.
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